ChatGPT: AI Cupid for Valentine’s Day

Love and romance in 2024 have been transformed by the emergence of artificial intelligence (AI). New dating applications fueled by AI algorithms have emerged, creating a semi-dystopian version of online dating with slogans like “technology meets romance.” Some people are using AI to enhance their online dating profiles with AI-written bios or utilizing AI speech coaches to improve their conversations and increase their chances of getting a date. In August 2023, Tinder, the popular dating app with over 75 million users worldwide, introduced an AI-powered feature that assists users in selecting the best photos for their profiles. The CEO of Tinder’s owner, Match Group, stated that AI has the potential to create “better” and “more efficient” profiles. Interestingly, single women in China have even turned to AI as an alternative to real men, referring to their digital boyfriends as “better than real men.” As AI continues to make an impact on the world of romance, a test was conducted to evaluate its capabilities. On Valentine’s Day, two chatbots, Google’s Gemini and OpenAI’s ChatGPT, were asked relationship advice. The responses of both chatbots were compared to determine which one gave the best advice. This analysis was based on the free, publicly accessible versions of the chatbots. The first question asked was about finding a good partner. Both chatbots emphasized the importance of self-awareness and clear communication. Google’s Gemini provided more realistic advice by acknowledging that there is no magic formula for finding a “good” partner and suggesting self-reflection, open-mindedness, and expanding social circles. Gemini also offered links to psychology websites for further reading on this topic. ChatGPT provided similar advice but without external links. The second question focused on the three keys to a healthy relationship. Both chatbots mentioned “communication,” “mutual support and empathy,” and “emotional intimacy and trust.” Gemini went further by providing additional points to consider. Gemini’s ability to search the web seemed to play a significant role in its more detailed responses compared to ChatGPT. The final question sought advice on adding romance to a love life on Valentine’s Day. Both chatbots offered similar advice, including planning a date, creating a romantic atmosphere, and being adventurous and spontaneous. Gemini, once again, provided specific examples of meaningful gestures partners could do for each other and concluded with a “Happy Valentine’s Day” wish. Both chatbots efficiently answered questions about dating and romance, but Gemini consistently provided additional and real-time information, possibly due to its ability to search the web.